The first time I did it was with a steady boyfriend who happened to be experienced in getting women comfortable with butt stuff. But if the angle is wrong in anal sex, with too much of a sharp upward or downward angle, a sting-y and unpleasant pain can be the result. Just as when you tried it yourself, have your partner start by gently massaging the outside of the anus. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. He said that he had done it before and really liked it, but he didn't put too much pressure on me about it.
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I'm not sure if it's because it's taboo, or because they don't have it as frequently as vaginal sex, or because it's fetishized as something only pornstars and sex freaks do, but most men have a mild obsession with anal sex. These are all the things you need to stop doing during sex, according to The Guyliner. Related Stories for GQ Sex. With all due respect to Salt-N-Pepa, let's talk about Todd. The very first time they slept together, they had anal sex.
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Van Kirk said this side-by-side position will stop your partner from going too deep too fast. And as logic follows, if those muscles and your anal sphincter are tight, inserting anything can be painful and difficult rather than pleasurable and easy. Another important piece of the puzzle is lube. There are some positions that are better than others for anal sex. How do you feel about two fingers? The medical procedure includes injecting liquid or gas into the rectum in order to expel waste. In light of this seriously damaging view, we decided to give you a few tips on how you actually can enjoy anal sex.